Dear Rapist (Sex Slave),

Who goes out simply for the purpose of getting some kind of rough, violent sex at the detriment of the other party? What in the world happened to the sanctity of enjoying having sex with mutual consent? What human being in the proper frame of mind will go out to inflict pain on another person for pleasure? There are many cases of people being sexually aggressive as a result of uncontrollable sexual urges. It is not about the urge, it is more about the thought processing and decision making on how to satisfy the desire.

There is no reasonable excuse for the act of a rapist, it is always a conscious act committed in a ruthless manner. You take time to think about what you want, and how to get it. It doesn’t just happen, you have more than enough chance to stop yourself but you keep telling yourself “no I’ve got to do it.” The moment you are unable to stop your thought and abnormally raging hormone, therefore proceeding to plunge your filthiness into anything or anyone, you have lost touch with reality.

To you pedophile, spare the little children, they are to be protected and cared for. Raping little girls and molesting little boys is another level of heartlessness and brutality. It is simply inhuman, it goes to show how disturbed and deranged you are. It indicates that you do not believe in yourself, you have low self-esteem, no personality, lack of integrity and dignity.

Sex is only for temporary gratification but it leaves lasting impression on people involved. Your few minutes act creates a lasting scars on your victims. Dear rapist, are you ever satisfied or happy after performing your act of wickedness? It’s impossible to get long lasting satisfaction from your activities because you will keep looking for more. This eventually gets you behind bars where you should probably be kept for the safety of people. Wild and vicious animals are usually locked up and secluded from others. You can tell yourself you are not an animal, but if you find it difficult to control your abnormal sexual desire to hurt other people, consider yourself one.

Dear rapist, why don’t you find something better to do with your life and release yourself from the sexual bondage you are in. You have become a slave to your sexual desires.If you don’t care about yourself, don’t drag people down with you and leave them feeling worthless and depressed for the rest of their lives.

Children being molested by relatives

Has there been any adult who touched you, your friend, or siblings inappropriately at a younger age? These days, sexual molestation occur from father to daughter or son, brother to sister, teacher to students, and babysitters to children. Isn’t it daunting that people who are expected to be custodians of our children are the culprits taking advantage of them? Should it be so difficult to leave your child with your siblings or close acquaintances?

Children are vulnerable and susceptible to abuse. It is disheartening to find that a lot of children predators are people close to the families. In a perfect world, you can have family members, friends, and teachers watch your kids while you’re away without problems. Unfortunately, in this perverse world, only a few can be trusted. Child molestation has become a predominant form of abuse which some parents remain ignorant towards. A recent National Child Abuse Statistics report indicates that, more than 90% of juvenile sexual abuse victims know their perpetrator in some way. About 80% of 21 year olds that were abused as children met criteria for at least one psychological disorder.

Many parents fail to communicate with their children, and as a result, they are unable to detect the emotional and physical trauma these children are experiencing. In most cases, the perpetrator who is an adult, threaten these children not to tell anyone about their experiences.

Your duty as a parent or guardian:

Educate your kids about their bodies and how to protect it.

Ask them about any discomfort they might  be experiencing in their bodies.

Be mindful of the kinds of people you entrust your children to.

Notice any changes in your child’s behavior around certain people.

It is important that parents take time to ensure the safety of their children in order to prevent future mental health    problems associated with trauma from childhood.

References:

http://www.drsvyas.com/child_sexual_abuse.html

National Child Abuse Statistics http://www.childhelp.org/pages/statistics