An unfortunate case of falling in love is when the feeling is not mutual. It is absolutely impossible for two hearts to synchronize or intertwine when one is uncooperative. A relationship usually starts based on agreement. One asks the other out and they make a decision to date each other. If love was not involved, there will be no consent to stay together.
In a situation whereby, people are not in love at the same time, there has been a disconnect in communication. It doesn’t matter what the other person does, you just can’t bring yourself to terms with finding happiness with him or her. When one heart is in love, the other is breaking or indifferent. Love is a connection, but when it is displaced, the relationship becomes miserable.
When this happens, you must define why you are with the person. This will require travelling back in time to remind yourself about how and why you fell in love. It’s like losing your keys or something dear to your heart, you’ve got to retrace your steps in order to recover it. While doing this, you begin to think about every step you’ve taken and you should be able to discover how things changed. However, if after you have thoroughly retraced your steps, you are unable to find any reasonable explanation, it’s time to create a new memory. You will decide what to do, either to start over on a clean slate, or to find a replacement. Read the post titled, “love never dies… we give up on it.”
Related Posts: Hate to Love http://thehiddenkitten.wordpress.com/2013/06/28/hate-to-love/
Love never dies, we give up on it. https://inkatheart.wordpress.com/2013/02/25/love-never-dies-we-give-up-on-it/